Metlatonoc: child brides bought and sold. Metlatónoc: child brides bought and sold.

180,000 pesos for a virgin wife under 15

It's an old practice in Guerrero that authorities have been unable to eradicate

In the second poorest municipality in one of Mexico’s poorest states, girls under the age of 15 are being sold by their fathers as virgin brides for 180,000 pesos (US $9,400), or in many cases even less.


In the last 17 years, more than 300 young women have been forced into marriages of that type in Metlatónoc, Guerrero, according to a human rights center in the Montaña region where the municipality is located.

In most cases, the fathers of prospective grooms pay the fathers of young daughters so that their sons can have a teenage, virgin girl as a wife.

If a higher price is quoted, the typical response is “they don’t want her as a whore,” Melitón Hernández, a police chief in the town of Yuvi’nani, told the newspaper El Universal.

A local lawyer and advisor to the municipal trustee said that the tradition is engrained in society, above all among the indigenous Mixtec Tu’un Savi people.

“It’s an old practice that we can’t eradicate even though the law says that the practice is a crime, specifically human trafficking,” Serafín Nava Ortiz said.

Another lawyer, who works for the Tlachinollan human rights center in Tlapa, has worked on more than 100 forced marriage cases over the past 17 years in which she has tried to convince parents of girls to alter their opinions about the practice.


Girls who refuse to get married at such a young age turn to the center to act as a mediator with their parents, Neil Arias explained.

Often, she believes she is successful in changing the parents’ minds but admitted that once they left the center’s doors, she didn’t know what the final outcome would be.

“How many marriages end up being carried out or are left unregistered? It’s unknown.  It’s a hidden figure, the cases are still constant,” she said.

In its 2017 annual report, the Tlachinollan center stressed that the practice has lost all of its traditional significance to become nothing more than a “commercial exchange” that infringes on a girl’s body and dignity and “could result in the crime of human trafficking” being committed.

Treated like objects and the private property of their husbands, the girls and are forced into sexual relationships without giving prior consent, the center said.

Cases of rape, family conflict and breakdown and monetary disputes have all been reported in relation to the practice. At least one man has also been imprisoned on human trafficking charges despite arguing that he acted in good faith in accordance with his community’s traditions and customs.

In an interview, even the police chief admitted buying wives for his sons, saying that three years ago he paid 110,000 pesos (US $5,735) for a 14-year-old bride. Asked where he got the money from, Hernández responded, “I was on the other side [United States].

“I brought about 300,000 pesos from there . . .” he explained. Years earlier, he paid 130,000 pesos for a wife for his eldest son.

Others sell goats, pigs or land to raise the funds, Hernández explained, adding openly that many men also cultivate opium poppies. He also joked about buying his own wife, saying flippantly that he paid “50 pesos about 55 years ago.”

However, for the Tlachinollan center and at least some elements of local authorities, the issue is much more serious. Nava Ortiz explained that while the matter is more complex than it seems at first glance, the practice of buying underage girls for marriage against their will must be stamped out.

“For us, the authorities, this practice is a crime,” the trustee advisor said. “We have to end this practice, through talking [and] raising awareness.”

Source: El Universal (sp)

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  • Gabriel Heiser

    Send Roy Moore down there; he’ll be a happy man!

    • David Nichols

      Yeah, he can room with Al Franken…!

      • yeah, because to Republicans patting someone on the ass is the same as molesting a child.

        • David Nichols

          Point taken Daniel, I should have said Anthony Weiner…!

  • From South of the Border

    What can you expect in a country where corruption is everywhere? These aren’t fathers they are monsters who need a bullet in the head! The death penalty will end this execute one father who does this to their daughter and the practice will end overnight! Barbarians!!

    • Cam Nante

      Your suggestion is pretty barbaric as well

      • From South of the Border

        Hi Cam Nate, It is easy to criticize what is your solution. According to the article the authorities and NGOs have tried everything and the practice continues! Maybe even the threat of such a punishment might work, but something has to be done. Your none solution won’t work, so do something, besides sit back and be a lump on a couch somewhere. If you can come up with a better solution I’ll be the first to applaud you, so what is your solution!

  • Man, oh, man, my child bride cost me way more than that.

    • DreadFool

      especially if you add in all the diet cokes and tostilocos

  • DreadFool

    caramba, most of the girls at 15 around here (North West Mexico) are pregnant and at 18 have 2 kids, so what’s the story?

  • Shit, I lost my virginity at thirteen and my father didn’t find out about it….ever, I don’t think. I was able to fool my wife into thinking I was a virgin simply by being lousy in bed. I s’pose there’s a money back guarantee.

  • Charlie Primero

    Virgins are free in the U.S. to any schlub with a nice grill.


  • Luisa De Anderson Morales

    were did your mother come from