The first time I got on a plane to Mexico, I freaked out pretty thoroughly.
It started when the flight attendant began giving instructions in Spanish. To my dismay, even after two years of studying the language, I didn’t understand a single word she was saying.
My nervousness continued after I bumped into someone at the Mexico City airport. I wasn’t exactly sure how to say “I’m sorry.” I think I said “lo siento” too late, but no matter; it should have been “perdón” anyway. Later I realized that in packed places like Mexico City, most people don’t even bother saying “excuse me”; bumping into others is kind of expected.
This was 22 years ago, by the way, the time before everyone carried the internet — and potential immediate contact with all their people — in their pockets. My initiation felt rough, but after a couple of months, I was pretty well acclimated.
It’s been a while now, but I remember the surprises upon landing well. So if you’re planning on any kind of extended trip to Mexico, I’ve got your back! Here’s a list of things you can do to prepare.
1. Try to leave your cellphone in your bag. I know, we’re all addicted these days. And even if you don’t need to do anything with it, a cell phone is the perfect accessory to distract you and others from awkward situations, of which there will be many.
But trust me: they may be a habit, but they’re not your friend if you want to really learn about Mexico. They’re also designed to keep us hooked and distracted. I can’t count how many times I’ve taken my phone out to look something up, then gotten distracted and forgotten about the original thing. I’m also 100 percent sure I would not have learned Spanish as well as I did if I’d had the option of distraction and comfortable at-home content. When you’re on your phone, you’re not talking to or noticing what’s in front of you. Put it away!
2. Pack for all kinds of weather. It’s a common belief abroad that Mexico is all desert. If you’re reading this you probably know it’s not, but you still might be surprised by the variety in temperatures. Once I went to Catemaco — a place that’s supposed to always be hot — just as a cold front blew in. My sandals and sleeveless t-shirts were not cutting it. Even if you’re going to a coastal destination, take a couple sweaters and a few pairs of socks. You’ll be glad you did!
3. Have a money plan. You’ve probably heard that it’s best to use ATMs rather than exchange money. This is true, but there’s a tad more you should know about them. Some charge a lot and should be avoided — looking at you, BBVA — while others are free.
Another thing that I want to make sure you know: sometimes a screen will pop up that offers the choice to be charged in your own currency or pesos. You’re basically being asked “May we charge you at a more favorable-for-us exchange rate?”
Know this: you are allowed to say no, and you will still get your money. Just be sure to let your bank know you’re going, though. Even though mine knows I’m usually in Mexico, my cards get frozen once in a while.
Finally, remember that Mexico is both a cash economy and one in which no one ever has change. Ever. This is unfortunate, as ATMs routinely spit out 500 or even 1000 peso bills. Your best strategic bet is to buy something small at a large store or chain and use the 500 there. And if you’re partial to giving tips and donations to people, try reserving one pocket just for small change.
4. Be safe, but don’t worry too much. Though you don’t want to encourage would-be petty criminals through too-trusting behavior, rest assured that most people are nice and honest. Sure, there are precautions to be taken. But for the most part, you’re not typically in danger any more than in your home country.
Mexico has a lot to offer and a lot to learn from. I’m even a little jealous of those who are getting to know it now for the first time. You’ve got a wild, fun ride ahead!
Sarah DeVries is a writer and translator based in Xalapa, Veracruz. She can be reached through her website, sarahedevries.substack.com.
One more: spend as much time as possible with locals, in order to learn how to blend in.
One good thing to do before visiting or moving to Mexico is to buy the book Guide to Foods of Mexico, available as a paperback or ebook from Amazon and other online vendors. It is a glossary, not a cookbook, and explains over 3300 Spanish food terms and the history of many of the foods you will encounter.
Also, I have found through the years that the locals always appreciate when you attempt to speak their language (I’m still taking lessons after 8 years in country because a) never stop learning and b) it’s good for the aging brain!).
So at least TRY and they will generally be very patient with you.
Totally agree with you. Even TRYING to speak Spanish will be received with a much more friendly response.
As a seasoned Mexico resident it’s a pity the “go home gringo” sentiment that is increasingly found in many areas where real estate prices are driven up and locals who have lived there for generations have no chance whatsoever to stay along with the gentrification comes the redirection of scarce water resources to gringos leaving native communities with frequent droughts. All in all it’s been a negative experience for the majority
Unfortunately, in Puerto Vallarta, the gentrification is ruining long-established Mexican-family neighborhoods with modern high-rise condos that are often purchased for the use as part-time rentals. Some units have become a constant turnover of guests, often with little respect to the condo staff who provide much needed services while also increasing the use of utilities that can result in the shortages you listed. I am a long-term gringo Mexican resident who is beginning to support the “Green Go” attitude!
first off , if you are moving to a foreign country, make the effort to learn the language before getting there, don’t expect everyone to speak english!
Regarding currency exchange. BBVA exchange rates are AWFUL. The best rates I have found are when you pay in pesos by US Credit card. Much better than buying pesos and paying by cash. Be aware though that more restaurants than you think only accept cash, so check before you dine.
I know that Charles Schwab accounts/debit/credit cards don’t have foreign transaction fees and also reimburse you for all ATM fees when out of the country. That’s a huge savings.
Also, the use of Wise debit cards typically give you better exchange rates